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šŸ’” Stuck in the Middle... šŸ’” Big Insight: Your Career Is Quietly Carrying a Second Shift 187

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šŸ“° STUCK IN THE MIDDLE NEWS
Issue #187 – Wednesday, June 19, 2025
For people juggling their kids, their parents, their jobs, and their sanity.

šŸ’” Big Insight: Your Career Is Quietly Carrying a Second Shift

When you’re ā€œstuck in the middle,ā€ every workday feels like overtime—even when the clock says it’s not. You can’t stay late because Mom has a cardiology appointment. You skip networking lunches because the school nurse keeps calling. That nagging sense of failure you feel? It’s not incompetence; it’s capacity overload.
For this season, re-define success as ā€œshowing up,ā€ not ā€œmoving up.ā€ Survive now so you can thrive later.

🧠 3 Things That Might Help This Week

  1. How to Talk to Your Boss About Caregiving
    Practical scripts and what to ask for.
    šŸ”— https://mhanational.org/resources/when-caregiving-impacts-your-mental-health-5-tips-for-talking-to-your-employer

  2. The Real Signs of Burnout (and What to Do About It)
    Mayo Clinic’s no-nonsense checklist and recovery tips.
    šŸ”— https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/burnout/art-20046642

  3. Why Being the ā€œDefault Parentā€ Never Ends
    A relatable look at the mental load that sneaks up on sandwich-generation caregivers.
    šŸ”— https://www.parents.com/why-being-the-default-parent-is-a-never-ending-job-7370193

šŸ“Œ From One of Us

ā€œI turned down a promotion last quarter—not because I didn’t want it, but because I couldn’t afford the extra hours. No one at work knows. I just carry it.ā€

You’re not alone. Holding the line is heroic enough right now.

šŸ’¬ Help for the Hard Days

āœ… Download This:
ā€œWhat Can I Let Go Of?ā€ Checklist – $9.99
Pinpoint what’s truly urgent—and what you can finally drop.

šŸ“˜ Read This:
What to Do With Mom’s House
A short, practical guide to deciding whether to sell, keep, or rent a parent’s home.

šŸ‘„ Join Our Free Facebook Group:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/stuckinthemiddlenews

🧠 Final Thought

The world wasn’t built for people like us, but we’re making it work—one messy, beautiful, exhausting day at a time.

See you Monday,
Brian
Editor, Stuck in the Middle News
https://stuckinthemiddlenews.com

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