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💔 Stuck in the Middle...211Caring for a Parent Is Expensive—Here’s How to Breathe Financially

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📰Subject: Caring for a Parent Is Expensive—Here’s How to Breathe Financially 🧑‍🦳💸

STUCK IN THE MIDDLE — Issue 211 — Thursday September 4, 2025

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You’re juggling kids, aging parents, work, and a life you’re trying to keep together. Twice a week we share clear, no-fluff tips and tools to lower stress and costs—fast.
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🧠 Big Thought: Money Pressure ≠ Personal Failure

If you’re covering medications, home care, and surprise bills, you’re not “bad with money”—you’re funding two generations at once. This week’s theme: build a relief stack (benefits → taxes → insurance → legal authority) so the burden isn’t just on you.

đź§° Money Moves (Do these first)

  1. Screen every possible benefit (5 minutes):
    👉 https://benefitscheckup.org/ BenefitsCheckUp

  2. Tap caregiver programs near you:
    • Eldercare Locator (find your local AAA/Area Agency on Aging): https://eldercare.acl.gov/home Elder Care
    • National Family Caregiver Support Program overview: https://acl.gov/programs/support-caregivers/national-family-caregiver-support-program ACL Administration for Community Living

  3. Get unbiased Medicare help (free):
    • SHIP (national): https://www.shiphelp.org/ SHIP Programs

  4. Use the right legal/financial authority:
    • Managing Someone Else’s Money (CFPB guides & checklists): https://www.consumerfinance.gov/consumer-tools/managing-someone-elses-money/ Consumer Financial Protection Bureau
    • Social Security Representative Payee (when POA isn’t enough for SSA benefits): https://www.ssa.gov/payee/ Social Security

  5. Claim tax relief correctly (talk to your tax pro):
    • Medical expense deductions (Pub 502): https://www.irs.gov/publications/p502 IRS
    • Child & Dependent Care Credit (can apply to an adult who can’t self-care): https://www.irs.gov/publications/p503 IRS
    • Who qualifies as your dependent (Pub 501): https://www.irs.gov/publications/p501 IRS

  6. If your parent is a Veteran:
    • VA Aid & Attendance (pension add-on for those needing help with daily activities): https://www.va.gov/pension/aid-attendance-housebound/ Veterans Affairs

🛠️ Tool of the Week

BenefitsCheckUp® by NCOA — One quick intake checks 2,000+ programs (Medicaid waivers, SNAP, utility help, meds).
https://benefitscheckup.org/ BenefitsCheckUp

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Hit reply with one expense you want to reduce this month. I’ll send back 2–3 tailored ideas.

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