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Stuck in the Middle #210: Holiday Juggling Tips for Caregivers + Our New Community đ§Ą
Date: Monday, September 1, 2025
Juggling Holidays When You Care for Parents & Kids
For those of us in the sandwich generationâbalancing care for aging parents with raising kidsâholidays can feel overwhelming. Here are expert-backed strategies to help you find grace amid the chaos:
1. Plan ahead & simplify
Create a shared calendar to align work, caregiving, and family events. Finish key tasks early to reduce last-minute pressure. SkoolCarespring+10Next Step 4 ADHD+10Adelaide Now+10Winnie
2. Be clear about your energy levels
Communicate your limits to family and set realistic boundaries. Itâs okay to decline invitations or projects that will overextend you. CaregiverAtria Senior Living
3. Accept help & ask for support
Let others lighten the loadâwhether through hosting, errands, or caregiving shifts. Donât be afraid to delegate. Verywell Health+15Atria Senior Living+15Caregiver+15
4. Adapt traditions & create new ones
Instead of big gatherings, opt for smaller, meaningful moments like reminiscing over photo albums, listening to music, or reading stories together. Atria Senior LivingButler Hospital
5. Schedule respite breaks
Short breaksâeven just for a walk or quiet timeâcan help you recharge. If possible, arrange for respite care or shifts with coâcaregivers. Carespring+6Butler Hospital+6Alzheimer's Society Forum+6
6. Manage holiday meals thoughtfully
Adjust mealtime for your parentâs needsâserve easierâtoâeat foods, time meals to align with their usual schedule, and plan exits if gatherings become tiring. Atria Senior Living+4Harvard Health+4AgingCare+4
7. Prioritize self-care to avoid burnout
Caregivers often spread themselves too thin. Sleep, exercise, mindfulness, or even therapy can help maintain your resilience. AgingCareWikipedia
Why This Matters
Youâre part of the âSandwich Generation,â caring for both your children and your aging parentsâa role that brings emotional, physical, and financial demands. Planning early and tapping into support makes a real difference. Adelaide Now
Quick Recap Table
Challenge | Strategy |
---|---|
Overload & unrealistic expectations | Set realistic goals, say no, keep things simple |
Traditional expectations | Adapt celebrations or create new, meaningful traditions |
Continuous caregiving | Arrange breaks, share responsibilities |
Mealtime logistics | Adjust timing, simplify meals, plan assistance during gatherings |
Caregiver exhaustion | Prioritize self-care and mental well-being |
Your New Resource: SKOLL COMMUNITY
Weâre thrilled to invite you to join our Stuck in the Middle SKOLL COMMUNITYâa welcoming, private space where we can share challenges, trade tips, and support each other through the juggling act of caregiving.
đ Join here: https://www.skool.com/stuck-in-the-middle-community-1730/about?ref=4956bcfb588b4962b89c23002360ff83
In Closing
Holidays donât have to be perfect. They can still be joyful, meaningful, and manageableâespecially when you plan, lean on others, and take care of yourself too. If you'd like us to dive deeper into meal planning, technology aids, or creative traditions next time, just say the word.
Wishing you peace, rest, and small, beautiful moments this season.
With warmth,
Stuck in the Middle Team
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